This cougar is sharpening her claws and isn’t holding back.
Hayli Hooper is giving up on men her age and sharpening her claws. Jam Press/@haylihooper
She didn’t stop there, adding, "All they want is some kind of stepmom for their kids. And they always bring along baggage from being with their ex-wives," She also pointed out, "More often than not, though, they're so judgmental."
In her opinion, men her age are just "boring," although she confessed, "I don't think they are really too keen on me, either."
That’s where younger men come into the picture.
"I don't mean to date younger," she clarified, before explaining, "but they approach me and I end up sleeping with them. Maybe it's the energy I give off."
She recalled how a 21-year-old once saved up all his money just to take her out to dinner, yet she still faces judgment for dating younger men.
“Guys my age don’t want anything fun,” Hooper, who works part-time as a nurse and part-time as a stripper, complained. Jam Press/@haylihooper
"It's so common, though, for older men to be celebrated for dating younger. We don't ever talk about how there's so many women out there, too, that have already hit their sexual peak and men their age aren't interested," Hooper explained.
"It's something I see so common with women my age these days - it's crazy. So we go for younger guys and we're usually slammed for it."
Hooper thinks this makes men her age “boring,” although she admitted, “I don’t think they are really too keen on me, either.” Jam Press/@haylihooper
Fortunately, she isn’t alone in her preference for younger men. She’s found a group of women who feel exactly the same way.
"My friends and I are all open and honest about our sexual experiences, so we pass on the boys once we're finished and give feedback. These guys love it," she revealed.
But while this lifestyle is exciting, it hasn’t exactly helped her settle down.
“I don’t mean to date younger,” she insisted, “but they approach me and I end up sleeping with them.” Jam Press/@haylihooper
"Obviously, though, anything serious with them is off the cards," she admitted, acknowledging one big challenge "Younger men are usually broke, so it can be a bit harder to explore anything further."
However, she’s not complaining, adding, "But they really do try so hard and the sex is incredible. They're just willing to give anything a go, which I really admire."
When the time comes to look for something serious, she knows she won’t be easy to impress. She describes her approach as "going to be cutthroat."
"I don't want to settle down with someone just for the sake of it. They've got to be right for me, and agree with everything I'm doing," she declared.
For now, she’s content with her lifestyle, saying, "For now, I'm having fun with lots of young guys and that's fine."
